Are looks everything?

I had no idea what to put in my blog.. so I asked Petra, and she suggested that I write on looks. The subject of looks is a tricky one at that, because if I say too much on it then i may seem vain, and if I say too many negative things, people will think I am lying. But I shall try to tackle it nonetheless.

Looks, hmm what can I say... Looks are seen as the defining feature in todays society; because if a guy doesn't look that good then girls will ignore him, making him go gay or whatever, and if a girl doesn't look good then the guys don't go within 100 metres of her. But as looks kinda define the relationships today, they really shouldn't because on occasion, those with looks are the simpletons, the idiots of society. And honestly the world doesn't need that many idiots around. In my opinion it isn't looks that define who likes who, it is the personality and moral values of a person that does that, and if said person happens to bee "good looking" then that is an added bonus really isn't it?

“Don't go for the looks, it can be quite deceiving. Don't go for wealth, even that fades away -- go for someone who makes you smile because only a smile makes a dark day seem bright. Hope you find that person.”

There was no cited author for this quote, but whoever it may be is spot on in my opinion. Love and looks can't co-exist, you either love someone for their personality or they way they make you feel, or you "love" the way that they look.

On the other hand, looks can be a good thing, especially as they say that love is blind, if that was true then the e ugliest guy could get the most beautiful girl in the world, just by being himself. Looks can make people try their hardest for the best looking guy/girl, it's something to aim for right?

Maybe, but who knows what makes some people so vain that they have to get the best looking person? I know that I'd be happy just as long as I got along with the girl.

I think that may be it for that... I think that if I write anymore, I may just repeat myself.. so laters people..